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I saw House of Dynamite on Netflix yesterday, and instead of just enjoying the movie, I was seeing the weight of responsibility, and sometimes what it means to be a leader. Although you people would have told me that the movie did not show whether the missile hit or not, now, I have to finish the story without a closure. đŤ I will firmly posit that leadership at any level means taking responsibility for the lives of other people; itâs just that the weight and consequences differ from level to level. But the movie exemplified what it means to be in positions of powerâespecially when you want to act with responsibility. Soldiers trained for routine operations all their lives now face the crushing weight of intercepting their first ballistic missileâknowing that a single failure could cost 10 million lives. The defence secretary knowing his daughter is in the kill zone, but cannot tell her, ending the call with âI love youâ, and going on to commit suicide. There are weights that come with responsibility, and the higher you go, which should be the growth trajectory of anybody, the more you should be ready to face things that are bigger than what you are facing now. This is what I have been telling myself in recent timesâyou will not get less busy, and your schedule and responsibilities will not get less intense; the faster I find my way around the chaos that I have on my hands today, the better for me. Are you preparing for the things you are praying for, Reader? - O'gbemiro |
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My waking thought this morning is that it is easy to be drawn into ruminating on the things you don't have, or feel like you are missing out on, than the things you have â and the possibilities that can come from your own journey. You can get so caught up comparing and wanting, that you are not living the life that can possibly create the very things you are wanting. It takes intentionality to build. And you will not build your own if you spend time worrying about why your own is not like...
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